Relationship Shift

Welcome to your Relationship Shift Study where you get to learn all about your connection with each other. We’ll be going over the chart properties for both, the centers, and the connections between each of you! I’m looking forward to connecting with you along the way as you look into each other on a deeper level.

The Basics of Parenting in Human Design

When we are talking about how we connect with others, it’s so important to remember who you are and how you operate should always be focused on your design. So often we can get lost in who we are when we are in connection with others, when really our connection is just passage of information through us that allows us to see the other person and share moments together rather than become something different.

Your strategy and authority is the key piece that keeps you in alignment with who you are while you are connecting with other souls and maintaining a connection with your strategy and authority will save so a relationship from many issues.

Entering a relationship correctly can set the tone for the relationship. What this means is that a Projector needs be recognized and invited into the relationship, a Generator or Manifesting Generator responding, a Manifestor informing, and a Reflector waiting a lunar cycle. When starting a relationship on these terms we can recognize that we are starting them in our signature vs. our not self tendencies. That makes the relationship easier because the connection realizes who you are when you are operating correctly from the start vs. being attached to who you are when you are in the not self.

They key thing that we first look at is the not self in our own design. It shows us where we are dealing with our own problems internally and how we handle those problems that arise within our bodies. Remember that even a defined center can hold not self tendencies so looking at your not self theme as well as the not self in all the centers is a beautiful start.

Projector Children

Generators and Manifesting Generators in a relationship might express an idea or possibility in a relationship but the key thing the remember is that it’s a question that need to be asked of themselves. Having the partner ask if that idea or possibility is something they actually want clears up whether the Generator or Manifesting Generator even wants to do the thing they expressed. In order for the relationship to thrive the Generator or Manifesting Generator then needs to respond with their authority and respond as themselves. In a relationship with a Manifestor a Generator or Manifesting Generator simply waits for the Manifestor to initiate with them, in order for them to respond.

Chart Properties & Connection

Centers

Gates, Channels, & Connections

Electromagnetic Channels: These are the channels where one person has one gate and the other person has the connecting gate that makes the channel. Electromagnetic channels are ones that pull us together but also can create fights if we aren’t willing to see the others side.

Compromise Channels: Where one person has the full channel and one person only has a gate. This is where the person with the full channel can sometimes override the other person leaving the person with just the gate feeling unsure if they can participate. The personal with the full channel can make space for the other to shine and the person with the gate can benefit from being connected to the person with the full channel.

Johnny Full Channel - Laura with Gate 57

Johnny Full Channel - Laura with Gate 57

Laura with Full Channel - Johnny with Gate 4

Laura with Full Channel - Johnny with Gate 56

Laura with Full Channel - Johnny with Gate 12

Laura with Full Channel - Johnny with Gate 33